Sharing is Caring: My Weekly Finds

The posts here will be a mash-up of interesting things I’ve found or learned from during the week. This could be material from blog posts, articles, video clips, etc.   

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Wicked Writing Wisdom

While I put Piper Bayard’s Seven Years’ Journey under writing wisdom, the lessons learned and shared about commitment and focus can be applied in other areas of one’s life and career(s).  For writers, she provides tips on what it means to be a writer (there are no shortcuts – put in the work every day) and for thriving at conferences (talk to everyone).  This will be a go-to reminder piece when I wander off goal.

A great perk about getting more involved in a blogging community is finding the new avenues for writing research.  Via #MyWANA, I recently came across Jen Danna’s Real Life Interrogation Techniques for Crime Writers blog post and will definitely be able to use the information to keep things realistic in some future stories.  Jen is a forensic crime fiction author (be still my heart) and research scientist specializing in virology and immunology by day.  Her blog will be a regular read.

In How Do I Build a Writing Team, Jenny Hansen highlights the beauty of creating and growing a writer community and four key qualities that make up successful teamwork.  Including developing a personal, publishing and public team, Jenny shows us how support can and will be there if we want it.

Guest posting on Roni Loren’s Fiction Groupie blog, historical romance author Ashley March’s Voice Matters: Does Yours Fit Your Genre gives examples of how providing the right voice for each genre brings the reader quicker into the story.

Since I’m still in the pre-work, outline and plot phase before diving into text for my first novel, I was immediately drawn in by David Walker’s question, “If we don’t know what our story is about, how can we create the powerful characters who will carry the action?”  In Log Lines, he uncovers the importance of working through the one-sentence synopsis process to better understand our stories.

Making Media Magic

Kristen Lamb’s blog is a regular go to each week for a guaranteed dose of humor and eye-opening learning.  In her post Social Butterflies Trump Worker Bees on Social Media–Meet the Connector, she expands on who connectors are, how you can spot them and why you need these fun folks in your circle.

White-Knuckling Your Author Platform: How to Rein in the Social Media Pressure by Roni Loren, on the Writers in the Storm Blog, shines a light on the conflicting advice and pressure writers have to network, network, network as well as suggestions to make finding what you like to do work for you.  

Michael Hyatt’s How to Write a Blog Post in 70 Minutes or Less provides efficiency tips for writing blogs, including time-blocking techniques, music for motivation and allowing time for idea generation.

In the wild open space of social media what is TMI?  Has anyone ever told you “don’t Facebook that”?  In Is ‘Facebook Friction’ a Problem in Your Relationship, Mia Freedman walks us through some of the glitches starting to occur as our willingness to share hits up against relationship boundaries.

Frolicking Fun Finds

Shout out to Jenny Hansen again for her Coffee-Snorting Video Clip of the Week…Christian Panties find.  Important warning: thongs are a “weapon of mass corruption.”  Heh heh.

In Send Over Another Flaming Shooter Please, Carrie Spencer shares a great video with some beyond talented bar gurus.

Jess Witkins’ post I Know You Are, But What Am I took me back to the brilliant, quirky humor of Pee-Wee Herman in “Pee-Wee’s Big Adventure.”  Remember the suits, how he rode his bike and Large Marge?  Jess does and shares some great clips.

And my blog buddy Natalie Hartford didn’t disappoint with her Twisted Tuesday post Dear Santa…I’d Like the NEW Hitch Stripper Pole.  This must have “dancing pole” comes with its own stage and makes taking your act on the road easy peasy.  I’ve already picked out a pole-worthy, throwback fave to get us started for a first routine.  🙂

Imaginative, Insightful, Inspirational

In Friday Inspiration – Not Everyone Likes You, Amber West shares her growth from wanting everyone to like her to being comfortable with who she is and accepting that “haters gonna hate.”

The short clip How to Be Tough With Yourself is a kick I needed this week.  In it, Jacob Krueger says our first jobs as writers is to find “what works” regardless of how bad we think something is.  Find and hang tight to those golden nuggets…and keep going.

“WHAT IF we could all wear a sign that said what WE REALLY MEANT?”  This piece was reposted on September 11, 2011, as a reminder of the kindness and respect of human beings sometimes lost in the face of darkness.  It is a little longer, but well worth the read.  Move to a quiet place, settle in for a sec and check out We Must See Past What It Seems.

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Life Can Be So Random – 10 Things About Me

Who doesn’t like a good game of tag?  In the blog world, that includes participating in sharing 10 random facts about yourself.  I like to think of it as the equivalent of virtual flashing.  

The rules state that after I flash list my 10 things, I am to tag four others to do the same.  A courtesy is to ask the bloggers if they want to play before you tag them.  Natalie did that for me and I’ve done the same for my victims new players.

Before I expose my wares, I’d like to give a shout out to my tagger, Natalie Hartford.  Natalie writes the blog Life Out Loud.  I first met Natalie when we both participated in a 31 Days to Build a Better Blog workshop led by freelance writer and blogger, Walker Jones Thornton.  It was there that we became “blog buddies” and committed to regularly reading each other’s work.  We got to know each other more via Kristen Lamb’s Blogging to Build Your Brand workshop.  Natalie is an open and giving friend and supporter.  One day she even Twitter DM’d with me for almost an hour as I had a theme/”where is my blog going” breakdown moment. 

After applying what we’ve learned, her blog has taken off in topics and fabulous design!  In fact, she just received a “Blog on Fire” award.  Her posts range from spurt your coffee funny to poignant and reflective.  Plus she’s one of those people that I know if I ever get to meet in person; it will be one heck of a party.  Woot woot!

On to my randomness:

1. As a child, I used the wrong colors in my Disney color-by-number books.  I had a thing for Burnt Sienna, Brick Red and Plum.  I also colored outside the lines, which led my older sister to tattle on me as if federal rules had been broken.  By this point, my mom knew I liked to creatively interpret rules and she left me to my doodling.

Flickr image by atibens

2. I took my first trip to Disney World at age 23.  Growing up, my father’s idea of family vacation was riding down south to visit relatives.  The Disney trip came when, at an employee picnic, I won two airline tickets to anywhere in the U.S.  Just like the quarterbacks winning the Super Bowl, Disney was the only place to go.  Ever seen adults singing “It’s a Small World” at the top of their lungs and running to tackle hug Mickey?  My mom, sister (who we invited along) and I had a great trip.

Walt Disney Statue by Michael Sult at stock.xchng

3. I didn’t get my license until I was 22.  The required driver’s ed course offered by my high school conflicted with my after school theater and dance rehearsals.  So I negotiated with my dear parents for them to pay for a private course that better fit my schedule.  Yeah, lost that debate.  When I did turn 18, we were in the midst of their divorce and the freedom of wheels took second place.  Then in college, I was able to walk everywhere and hang with friends that had cars.

Flickr image by Clay Smith at stock.xchng

4. Staying with the car theme, I’ve been in three serious accidents—all caused by other drivers.  The first in ’97 is when I lost Firestarter, my Toyota Corolla.  I take comfort that “Wake Me Up Before You Go Go” was on the radio when it happened and that we were singing together.  The other two were last year with my current car Platinum Poison, a Honda CR-V.  I refuse to let the hits kill my love of driving and am typically in a rental and back behind the wheel within a few days.

Google image Honda CR-V

5. I love chocolate – dark chocolate to be exact – but it is now one of a slew of triggers for my migraines.  Yes, I’ve been instructed to leave it alone.  Never one to give up that easy on love, I have conducted some field tests and learned that I can eat two ounces before crossing the trigger threshold.  Did I mention that I also have stubborn tendencies?

Chocolate cake by Amethyst D at stock.xchng

6. I eat Quaker Oats Maple and Brown Sugar oatmeal, with a half cup of Kashi Go Lean Crunch cereal mixed in, paired with an extra hot grande skim latte from Starbucks for breakfast every work morning.  I am not a morning person and think this ritual helps alert my brain to zone in for work tasks.

Quaker Instant Oatmeal - Maple & Brown Sugar 7. I consider myself to be a lucky person.  Going along with surviving those three car accidents and winning the airline tickets, I won Prince concert tickets by singing the Sesame Street theme song on the phone for a radio contest.  For Tina Turner’s last U.S. stadium tour, I landed fifth row floor seats and was close enough to see how perfect her legs were and that she wasn’t wearing pantyhose.  A few years back, I won almost $800 playing a 25 cent video poker machine in Vegas.

8. I’m a reality TV addict.  I mean from way back with the first season of The Real World in NYC.  I’ve survived Joe Millionaire, Paradise Hotel, Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire?, Pop Stars (shout out to “Eden’s Crush”), American Juniors and multiple iterations of Making the Band.  And many more.  Sometimes I’ll say I’m semi-reformed, but that just means I’ve established a trick where if I avoid watching any episodes, I can then not get hooked to that show.  I’m now quite hyped that I can move from America’s Got Talent ending last night to the start of both The Sing-Off and X-Factor next week.  Heaven!

Google image NBC logo The Sing-Off

9. In ninth grade, I had this thing about taking dares or doing stuff to make my friends laugh.  This included pulling a long skirt over my head in the hallway and lighting Coke cans on fire on the sidewalk in front of the school’s office.  I prided myself on being unpredictable.  I’ve grown out of that.  Um, sort of.

Flickr image unpredictable by jbelluch

10. I’m a dancing machine.  I LOVE to dance and have my whole life including wanting to be a go-go dancer when I was 12.  The drive is internal and dancing is like breathing to me.  My mom started me off with gymnastics, which I hated because music was only allowed for one apparatus (floor routine), and they wanted me to do flips on a very narrow bar.  I then moved on to lessons in ballet (too many rules), tap (too repetitive), jazz (good, but cheesy at times) to modern (freedom).  I still dance every day and start my mornings off wiggling while I get dressed.  

Disco by Gabriella Fabbri at stock.xchng

Now it is tag time: Michele Chiappetta, Jen Groepl, Angelina C. Hansen, Lesann Berry and Scott Bury you are it!  What?  You say that I tagged more than four people?  See number 1 above.

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