Sharing is Caring: My Weekly Finds

Each week, the posts here will be a mash-up of interesting things I’ve found or learned from during the week.

Current (Pop) Culture Chattering

Whee!  This week has been a bounty of bliss for a pop culture addict like me.  Got five minutes to fry some brain cells?  Come along and click the links below.  Think all things celebrity are summoned from the depths of hell?  Then skip (fast) to Wicked Writing Wisdom.  🙂

 Here’s a quick what you may have missed highlight:

Wicked Writing Wisdom

Some of my reading focus in the writing craft arena this week has been on novel writing 101 and revising boot camp.  I’m in the great (scary) place of beginning to develop an idea that I realize will need to be much longer than a short story, which tosses me out of my element (I’m seeing I can’t be a pantser with this).  Any tips/ref books you can share are welcome.  At the same time, I am kicking some tough love at the completed short pieces that need to be revised and then put onto the submissions train.

Be still my heart! I did a little shuffle dance when I saw On Your Mark. Get Set. Go! Writing the First Line of Your Novel. Great timely advice thanks to Janice Hardy.

Check out this fabulous list of 101 of the Best Fiction Writing Tips, Part III posted by Suzannah Windsor.  There is a reference tip for everyone and be sure to check out Parts I and II.

In Wealth Creation for Writers, Ruth Harris gives great tips on where to dig for unlimited story ideas (yea tabloids!).  She also mentions using traditional and technology notebooks (e.g., Evernote) as a means for capturing thoughts before they get away.  

Preparing For Success Part 2: Writing is the second part of Jill Kemerer’s three-part series for writers who are moving towards being more publication minded about their work.

Jami Gold asks us Are All Distractions Bad?  The answer is no…read her piece to find out why.

Tuesday Ten: Tips for the Time-Strapped Writer from Cheryl Reif  is great post on time management and creating strategies to create more writing time.

Making Media Magic

What a great round up of tips and sources Jenny Hansen brings with Social Media and Your Author Brand posted on the Writers in the Storm blog.  I’ve added this to my “go to” reference list.

Check out Amber West’s Thursday Tweets – #Hashtaggin’! for some great tips for effective use of hashtags, Tweetiquette and a wicked funny picture of a Sesame Street mob.

In How to Get Your Blog Post on Google’s First Page, Keli Gwyn shares her success story of following the advice of Kristen Lamb, author of We Are Not Alone: The Writer’s Guide to Social Media, on the effective use of blog tags.

Speaking of Kristen, she provides great insight and directions on how to expand our reach and network as writers in The Secret to Selling Books Part I–Let’s Get Sticky. In Dr. Twuth–Are Writers Related to Ferrets? ADD and Social Media, she provides more tips on focusing and managing our social media platforms.

Frolicking Fun Finds 

Make sure you aren’t eating or drinking when you read Matthew Inman’s How to Tell if Your Cat is Plotting to Kill You.  Cat lovers will get an eerie “what if” feeling and cat haters will scream “told you so.” 

I thought I’d kicked my newbie addiction until I read Lili Tufel’s Top 10 Signs You’re Addicted to Twitter.  Raising my hand as guilty for spending way too much time eyeballing trending topics (see pop culture addiction mention above).

5 Friends You Make During the First Week of College (But Never Speak to Again) from Funny or Die is so true.  I can relate too well to both of the dining hall pics.

Horror lovers rejoice!  Catie Rhodes gives us some great background on The Texas Chainsaw Massacre via Leatherface’s House.  Not for the squeamish, prepare to learn about how they decorated the set, the “joy” of the seven days of filming and how the house is used now. 

Planking–It’s Not Just for Pirates Any More, by Piper Bayard, is the story of a crazy creative lady, a blue yoga mat, a dedicated daughter and – planking.  What is planking you ask?  Oh boy, you will soon soon see. 🙂

In Combat Computing: Beware of Kids and Pets! we meet Jenny Hansen’s Baby Girl.  Don’t sleep on this stealth trickster.  She’s got a drive and charm that will sneak up and take down you and whatever you are working on.

Imaginative, Insightful, Inspirational

“Do you make decisions without knowing why?” Linda Burke poses this question in Unconscious Decisions.  I noodled for a bit then nodded with understanding and agreement.  There is a “why” for who and how we are.  Sometimes it takes a little time to find it.

Terrell Mims’ Tuesday Thoughts: Living in the Dash is one of those posts that makes me thankful for the power to change and grow in life.  I “dashed to live” for 16 years with a self-imposed routine cocoon built on caution and safety.  Then I dug out and gave myself permission to slow down and experience versus hide from life.  Here’s to creating rocking epitaphs.   

Have you ever just felt the need for a good old-fashioned tear fest?  Here are Four Reasons to Have a Cry from Jess Ainscough.  Go ahead and release.  I’m wired as a never let’em see you sweat type of gal, but am all for tears in my secret vampire lair. 🙂

With Philanthropy Thursday – Blog McLoving, Jillian Dodd gave the opportunity to both promote our own blogs and shout out someone else.  Stop over and join in.

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Who Did You Want To Be When You Grew Up?

Yesterday, when chatting with some friends during a lunch cookout, we found ourselves reminiscing about our college days and what we would do if given a chance for do-overs.  One person volunteered that she’d go back to college and switch her major from business management to interior design.  She added she would also wild out more because she knows—in the scheme of life—she’ll end up okay.  I suppose if the newer wild moments don’t involve serious injury or jail time, then she’s right. 

Another lady noted she’d swap out the accounting focus for physical therapy and maybe massage therapy tossed in for sport.  Then a guy volunteered, with almost a whisper of defeat, that he hated every bit of his college experience and would go back to change it all, including selecting a different school.  His new career would be something with science. 

This got me wondering if any of us are who or what we envisioned we would be?

My initial high school dream was to be the next Debbie Allen.  Hey are you laughing?  Since I was a child during the whole Fame and Flashdance era, what do you expect?  I spent those four years immersed in all things theater and remember masterfully tricking convincing my parents to drive to New York City to get a tour of NYU. 

My 17 year-old self figured double majoring in performing arts and English then graduating to the life of a starving artist would be cool.  The parents didn’t agree and when we returned home, my mother killed the dream by telling me to not even bother spending the application fee because I would not be going.

Flash forward two decades.  My first work life was in marketing communications where I did research analysis and wrote proposals to win clients.  I’m now in a second career as a business training and development manager.  No telling what the next 20 years will bring. 

So tell me, if you could, would you go back and redo the college years?

Are you now on your second, third or fourth career?

Is there a dream job you still have your heart set on evolving into?

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